Last weekend I watched Tim Burton’s Alice in Wonderland. “Have you any idea why a raven is like a writing desk?” the Mad Hatter asks Alice. With NaNoWriMo looming, I have no time for riddles.  But Alice’s killing of the Jabberwocky? “This is impossible,” she tells the Hatter. “Only if you believe it is,” he replies. […]
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				My sister is a breast cancer survivor. I am a domestic violence survivor. I walked a Susan G. Komen 3-Day with her in 2006.  She walked a SafeWalk with me yesterday.    We’re talking about doing both next year. As we wrap up October, which is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and Domestic Violence Awareness Month, […]
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				Yesterday I wrote that no matter how often I wax on about life’s cycles and seasons, they still take me by surprise. I am, apparently, a similarly slow learner when it comes to other topics.  Just last night I was talking, well, texting, with a friend about the long process of grieving various aspects of […]
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				There is an open space in the middle of a circle when one woman tells her story, and it can only be filled by other women telling theirs.
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				I’ve been thinking about Mark Rothko, sort of. Daphne Gray-Grant is all about writing fast and fluidly, which is why I like to read her.  About a week ago, she wrote about seeing the play Red, quoting this comment by Rothko to his assistant, Ken: “Most of painting is thinking.  Didn’t they teach you that?  Ten percent […]
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